Since the death of my first wife I had been on a journey of self discovery and doing the inner work. During this time I had attempted to date, and when it didn’t go well I had stopped, planning on waiting till it felt more right. I had long ago decided Internet dating wouldn’t work for me, so I had taken myself off all other Internet dating sites, and left my profile on this free dating site just as a message to the Universe that I thought I was ready and only went on it when I wanted to play and look at profiles.
It was a Saturday night and I was home alone. I decided to browse the dating site as my entertainment for the evening. I had occasionally done this in the past. I’d browse the site until I came upon a girl that was attractive and send her an email. No attachment to whether the girl even responded. But truthfully I knew I wasn’t inspired most of the times when I’d email a cute girl, by what I’d write and then their lack of response validated that it wasn’t right.
But this time was different. When I saw Jen’s picture and checked out her profile I knew just what to write. Her timely response supported and fed my feeling that I was headed in the right direction. Our continued comfortable flowing email conversation felt effortless and natural. Just before our first phone conversation I was inspired to write a post on the Abraham-Hicks forum entitled “Love at First Email?” letting my community know I thought I might be onto something special. I do not tell puns, I don’t really find them funny, but was inspired to start our first phone conversation with a pun based on my name and one of our early email conversations. Surprise, surprise (NOT) this turned out to be the perfect thing to say. That first conversation lasted 4.5 hours and every interaction we had went smoothly from there, and continued that way on all our subsequent conversations leading to meeting her in person. The synchronicities continued as we talked and txted more and more leading up to our first physical rendezvous. It felt so surreal how right this felt even though we hadn’t met yet.
When I arrived at the restaurant for our first date, she was already there. She was/is beautiful. Realizing that in addition to our great connected inspired uplifting conversation, that there was also physical chemistry made this very special. The night went very well ending with us playing on swings on the beach and having a conversation about being team mates. Our second date was the next day, and we quickly started spending lots of time together. The combination of comfort and excited desire, along with how smoothly things were going between us and around us, shortly led to conversations of living together and marriage. Everything about us was right, and felt great. On the one year anniversary of that first date, we ended up back at the same swings and I proposed.
It doesn’t matter where you meet someone. LOA will organize it through the path of least resistance if you are getting in alignment with yourself.
